Expectation

People said, get out of your comfort zone and let the next stop challenges you.

Is it the right thing to do? 

We live our life without manuals.

We have parents, siblings, someone we called brother or sister, best friends, friends, stranger that good enough to share stories, someone we named teachers or lectures that guide us in some way so that at least we don't make mistake as they did before. They tried to make our life become what people nowdays labeled as "success". It's a packaged of good job, good salary, nice home, beautiful and kind spouse (for the serious issues, no more boy/girl-friend-ing), beautiful and nice kids, more than one health insurance, and so on.. The truth is, society nowadays become so much demanding. The moment you got a degree from university, people ask where are you work? When you finally got a desk in an office, they started to ask when will you married? When you are lucky enough to married someone, people asked about childs you have. It doesn't finish till finally they can't ask anything anymore (and maybe it's still gonna be a mystery when they'll stop asking). At one moment, you would hesitate either they care about you or just like to meddle. Yet, sometimes (even with the best "guidance") we still have anxiety. 

Here's the thing..

Life manuals for one to another is different, and life manuals (maybe) isn't exist.

There's no right answer for every decision in life cause, isn't life about learning? 

We might live in same roof, ate same food, went to same schools, and others.. But the consequences of the same decision we took will different whether it good or bad. One might take it as a good experience, some other make it as scapegoat. So, move from comfort zone and take another challange, is it bring you a success? Or happiness? Or both? Go ask yourself, what is your priority? Are you considering people you love when you make that priority? At what point you'll stop challenge you're self? Can we just live a life we want? It's hard when you live in community. The anxiety appears because we know what society expect us to be and what the reality we should face to meet the expectation. Being in your comfort zone or other zone is your choice, and people will always tell you what are right and wrong, predict all things to happen, tell your responsibility (even when you getting older and already know without them had to highlight every sentence). Any thought?